Instant dismissal

Most of us tend to believe in conventions and so end up instantly dismissing people and their ideas without giving a thought to the efforts and feelings these people might have put in.

Take for example a personal blog. If I am not pouring out my innermost feelings for once and writing something very simple like quotations or putting the lyrics of a song or a poem that I happen to like then why should someone label it as a "zabardasti ka post" (a post out of compulsion)? Does there have to be some deep hidden meaning behind every post of mine for it to be called one? A lyricist does not have to fall in or out of love every time in order to write a song for that situation in a film!! I don't have to be on the verge of losing hope if I want to post on my blog on the same topic!!

Another instance is when in love you are supposed to behave in a certain manner, say particular things and remember each and every move of the person you love. But even if we somewhat fail in these attempts that should not be the reason for anyone to dismiss all those emotions that we had felt for real.

In our professional life we'll come across those who'll tell you that your work is nothing great. They'll try to put you down and very brutally instantly dismiss everything you've achieved. Such situations demand that we have confidence in ourselves. And if our results were incorrect then we've simply got to pull up our sleeves and prepare to slog.

We also have a habit of getting influenced by looks. But we should not turn a first bad impression into a last impression. We should have faith in the goodness of people and shouldn't shy away from giving them a second chance.

I really wish we (incuding myself) could stop being very critical and hold ourselves from walking over other people's genuine endeavours.

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PS: By tradition this has become a real post which have been compelled to write. :p