Sunday, December 28, 2008

To new "beginnings"

Christmas is over and we have now come to that part of 2008 when everybody is looking forward to the new year. Everybody at this time is reminiscing all that happened in the past twelve months. However bad the bygone 365 days might have been everybody is hopeful of the tide changing with the setting of January the First. There's a vigor, excitement and desire to start some projects afresh and to bring others to completion.

2008 has so far been very good to me. Two of my papers got published with a third one waiting to be uploaded soon. Instead of one stamp on my passport, I got two! I presented an invited lecture at an international conference. On the personal front I was gifted with a niece who filled my life with happiness. I found a certain precious thing I'd never had and threw away that no longer held any meaning.

I am now waiting with bated breath for 2009 to arrive. I have a simple two-point plan.

Someone very wise told me "You set your own standards." I am going to remind myself to always place the bar high. To try and do the best I can.

In the film The Holiday, Miles (Jack Black) says to Iris (Kate Winslet), "Iris if you were a melody... I'd use only the good notes." That is what I want to do... use only the good notes... make the sweetest melody.

:)

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Way back into love

About a week ago during a tea session my boss said that in his opinion girls handled the matters of the heart much better than boys as they are emotionally stronger. I have on the other hand have always thought that boys are more practical than girls which gives them a certain edge.

If my boss is right then how do you explain all the tears shed by heartbroken girls?

If I am not wrong then why do I find some guys almost becoming direction less in life?

I suppose one cannot simply label it as a boys versus girl scenario. Afterall we are individuals with our own ways of coping with everything bad that love brings. Some people when grieving hide under a shell. Some immerse themselves deeply into work. Some are just unable to function while some keep on acting as if everything is fine.

Our reactions may all be different but there's a wish which everybody has in common... its the wish to find a way back into love. As much as it scares us we still hope for there to be someone who will make our return journey worth it. :)

Here is a song which very simply and beautifully talks about all this.

Film: Music and Lyrics

Music: Adam Schlesinger

Lyrics: Adam Schlesinger

Singers: Hugh Grant and Haley Bennett

I've been living with a shadow overhead
I've been sleeping with a cloud above my bed
I've been lonely for so long
Trapped in the past
I just can't seem to move on

I've been hiding all my hopes and dreams away
Just in case I ever need them again someday
I've been setting aside time
To clear a little space in the corners of my mind

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love

I've been watching but the stars refuse to shine
I've been searching but I just don't see the signs
I know that it's out there
There's got to be something for my soul somewhere

I've been looking for someone to shed some light
Not somebody just to get me through the night
I could use some direction
And I'm open to your suggestions

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love

And if I open my heart again
I guess I'm hoping you'll be there for me in the end
There are moments when I don't know if it's real
Or if anybody feels the way I feel
I need inspiration
Not just another negotiation

All I want to do is find a way back into love
I can't make it through without a way back into love

And if I open my heart to you
I'm hoping you'll show me what to do
And if you help me to start again
You know that I'll be there for you in the end

Friday, December 19, 2008

Complimentary service

I don't know of any girl who is not pleased when served with a compliment. I too love to hear good things about myself. Getting commended for my work or receiving showers of praises by a friend always brings a smile to my face.

Today I got my best compliment ever and I liked it so much that I am sharing it here to celeberate my 200th post and to boast about myself. :)

Read on to find out how it came about....

X=: tell me how many guys are so lively... very few
TK: i wouldnt use the word lively... mad and crazy perhaps :p
and yeah u r one of the few such guys
and somehow u r very decent too

how did this combination happen? :)
X=: Unique again ;)
TK: :p bragging bragging!! kamse kam use a different word for unique :D
X=: :) Tuhina
TK: kya?
X=: :P

TK: thats the different word ? :D ok.. now i am bragging

Saturday, December 13, 2008

Waqt waqt ki baat

Like everything in this world, we always find ourselves either having too much or too little of time. I discovered through this short chat with a friend that all you need is a simple change of perspective in order to solve this perpetual problem. Read on to find out how...

TK: thats the thing... and thats why i want time to fly fast
AM: :) just a few weeks left
TK: few weeks is a lot more in days ;)
AM: its a lot less in years!

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Uniquely Singapore: Day 4

I got one free day all to myself during my Singapore trip thanks to the conference ending earlier than what was the scheduled plan according to which I had booked my air tickets. Having heard a lot about Sentosa Island from friends I decided to head in its direction.

As I began the process of carrying out my plan I was plagued with my all-time concern of whether I will be able to enjoy simply on my own. But once I reached the Harbour Front Tower and could see the cable cars right above I knew that had I held myself back because of my fears then I would have missed something.










Honestly sometimes I feel a bit afraid of heights, this after having travelled in planes on various occasions. So it took a bit of pluck to enter the lift of the Harbour Front Tower alone to reach the 15th Floor from where the cable cars leave. Being a Hindi movie buff I have seen films where heroines invariably find themselves hanging for dear life from a cliff. They of course always get saved by the hero. As I had no such confidence in my luck I did not wish to be the sole occupant of the cable car. Thankfully one elderly couple readily let me join them. Within a few seconds of leaving ground (read 15th floor) reality I became completely at home. All my fears vanished and I absolutely enjoyed the short 15 minutes ride.

The first thing that I did on landing in Sentosa was souvenir shopping. I bought cute key chains, a mini golden replica of the cable car, a beautiful hanging, magnets, post cards for friends, a nice huge cup for Daddy with some important Singapore sights etched on it and a business card holder for my Boss.

Feeling suddenly confident of being able to reach any heights I booked myself a seat on the Sky Tower. There's a circular booth which you enter at the base and then slowly it rises until you find yourself some 45 storeys high. At that point the booth revolves so that you get a good view of all the sides.

My next stop was a food joint to fill my empty stomach which had started making a nice racket by then as it was way past my usual lunch hour. After relishing my favourite fish and chips I then got on to a free Sentosa shuttle. There are a number of them plying from the Imbiah Lookout to the different tourist attractions in Sentosa. At 3 pm the Dolphin Lagoon show was to take place and that's where I headed. There you get a combined ticket for the Dolphin Lagoon and the Underwater world. I unfortunately had enough time on hands for only the first one as the two are located in practically opposite directions. The show was very captivating with the dolphins performing all kinds of smart acts displaying their intelligence.

Right next door to the Dolphin Lagoon is the Palawan Beach. I was disappointed by the absence of any strong waves, the kind we are normally accustomed to see on beaches. It was a complete letdown. But the stretch of sand made up for it partially. I just walked and walked until I came across this bridge which led me to what was The Southernmost Point of Asia. The area was beautiful with its lovely coconut trees though it was rather crowded for my liking. How come whenever hero-heroine romance, in fact Hrithik Roshan and Priyanka Chopra had at exactly the same spot in Krrish, there's nobody around? :)









My last stop at Sentosa was the Skyride for which I had to return to the Imbiah Lookout. I hopped on to tram and then later a shuttle to reach by destination. I took a return-ride. This time I went even one step ahead and I sat alone. I was more scared of my sandals and my bag carrying my camera, money and passport falling down accidently that I had no occasion of fearing for my life. The wonderful scene in front of me also left me spellbound.

I would have loved to have stayed on and do a many more things like go for the butterfly trail, 3D and 4D movie shows, The Underwater World and the Song of the Seas laser show but I was out of time. I had an invitation for dinner at Daddy's colleague's daughter's place. She had helped me while I'd first started planning my Singapore trip and had been keeping my track when I landed there, so a visit was due. Satisfied with my exploits I went to Palm Beach Station and took the Sentosa Express to get back from where I'd started.


Summarizing in a line this Singapore tour was a short, powerpacked one.

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Blast from the past

I don't think I have ever revealed here that I keep a diary. I've been writing since I was in class VIII. But unlike others and just like this blog, I don't write every day. Mostly something good or bad has to happen to compel me to pen down my thoughts. I never write mundane day to day happenings. That's why the diary that I had bought in December 2006 is still very much in use with a number of pages left to be filled.

A lot of people say that one should not live in the past but keep surging ahead. Yet one of my favourite pastimes is to read my old diary entries. I always find it great fun to turn back the pages and recall incidents that had left a mark on me. I end up laughing away to glory remembering things that had disturbed me then but now have lost their meaning. Then there are descriptions of those moments which were a source of joy and I find them to be as effective as before in bringing a smile.

I've come to believe that looking back is not so bad as long as you don't end up losing sight of what lies ahead. :)

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Science as art

This year the MRS Fall Meeting 2008 is once again being held in Boston. One day I am sure to rekindle the desire of facing another round of the visa process for attending such conferences being held in the US. But until them I am happy to follow them online.

In keeping with its ritual of many years, the MRS Fall Meeting 2008 is holding its "Science as Art" competition. One MRS blogger Alison Hatt took photographs of some on the interesting entries this year which can be viewed by clicking here. Out of the photos posted my favourites are these two:




















Besides regional now art has no scientific boundaries either. :)